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For couples on the brink of separation or divorce
Man thinking about his marriage

Discernment Counseling


Discernment Counseling is a effective program for helping couples where one person is “leaning out” of the relationship—and not sure that regular marriage counseling would help--and the other is “leaning in”—that is, interested in rebuilding the marriage.


This structured program will help you decide whether to try to restore your marriage to health, move toward divorce, or take a time out and decide later.


The goal is for you to gain clarity and confidence about a direction, based on a deeper understanding of your relationship and its possibilities for the future.


The goal is not to solve your marital problems but to see if they are solvable.


You will each be treated with compassion and respect no matter how you are feeling about your marriage at the moment.


No bad guys and good guys.

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