If you scored Spontaneous in your Intimacy Skills, it is likely that:

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*You feel sex is a need, and you want to be careful not to become lazy

*You often think about whether you feel loved and desired by your partner

*You keep a pretty close watch on how often you and your partner have sex

*Gaps in sexual activity causes anxiety for you.  Sexual activity provides relief

*You try to spark sex or sexual feelings as often as you can (for self or partner)

*You seek "Turn on's" and work on satisfying your partner

*You like to discuss "turn on's" and what you like or need (or you like your partner to discuss)